Tattoos for women touches sexist nerve among men in Vietnam

Tattoos are growing in popularity in urban Vietnam, but while ink may be acceptable for men, there is less acceptance of it for women and a degree of criticism, often sexists and insulting aimed at those who want to wear visible and permanent art on their skin -- opinion appears divided.

 

Some say small, lovely tatoos can make women more charming 

Opponents of tattoos for women openly suggest they are an indicator of low morals, rather than a modern display of independence and self-identity.

"I don’t think a tattoo makes women more beautiful,"  said Tuan Hai, a master of ceremonies, but his criticism appeared to be directed at women who want to wear the name of someone they love, as do many men, only to regret it after the love turns sour. He sees to ignore the fact that the same can be said of men with tattoos. 

“I don’t like women with tattoos," Hai said, but added that he respect a woman's right to express themselves however they wished. "I don’t make assessments about anyone based on the fact they have one or more tattoos."

Psychologist Nguyen Huynh Khac Hieu said people should be aware of prejudices before getting any tattoos.

Hieu said tatoos were like the clothes people wear, except they were permanent and cannot easily be changed or removed. “I think small and nice tattoos, like an apricot in the wrist or ankle, are really lovely," he said.

Actor Manh Cuong said tattoos were art, and women should feel free to get them if they add to her beauty and charm.

“I like women who have small and lovely tatoos, especially on their waist,” he said.